The pastor's wife

My Vision is to marry a Pastor!

Tah! With all due respect ma, it is a lie!

God does not bring people to Earth to escort another man. He is too busy to make a full being to be just a wife.

You came here on purpose, you were created to fulfill a particular assignment and not just to be called Pastor's wife.

I know that the chief of your ginger to be a Pastor's wife is to be called mama and be the mother of the church. If you will allow me to take you to the Bible, you may have to see Matthew 5 : 16, it states; 'Let your light so shine before men....'. Clearly, God will not make any man short of that. Your light is not for the Church (alone), it is for men (all men), I mean the world.

So whichever office you seek that is short of that is a mirage. I keep saying it that; 'Many will go to hell not just because they committed sins but because they wasted God's investment in their lives'.

There is more to your life than to sit on the Altar and applaud your husband. There is much more need for you on Earth than to be washing and ironing suits (Oh, no Pastor's wife does that anymore). I mean you are too important for just being called Mummy in the Lord.

Yes, it is possible that you can become a Pastor's wife. If at a point your assignment links with the Altar, then it is inevitable, but that you stand in the junction of life waiting for a Pastor to marry you is what I cannot accept at all.

And for you already in the Altar, married to a pastor, I am happy for you.

But if your being called 'MUMMY IN THE LORD' is solely because you are 'DADDY's wife' and not that you are giving value to them, you have failed woefully!.

Marriage is to give a complimentary edge to your assignment not to disrupt it.

By King Joel Agho
Relationship Therapist l Common Sense Activator

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